I got an iPad

So I actually feel cooler than everyone else in school because I have one, and I've been on it since I got it two weeks ago. Highly addictive! Like, for real! I haven't turned my laptop on since I got it. Which is funny because everyone who would critique would say not to get an iPad because it really doesn't replace a laptop...and it doesn't, yet i haven't touched mine since I got it. Well anyway, carry on. Just thought I'd Bragg some more lol lol. That is all.

25 Questions you should know BEFORE a serious relationship!

This was on my fBook for a minute so I figured it's cool so why not?

My 25 Questions you should know BEFORE you enter a serious/long term relationship!!

I was sitting back thinking to myself...a lot of times people enter relationshps without knowing vital information about the person they are with. You then find yourself getting awnsers to questions that you wish you would have known before entering the relationship. Nobody wants to later feel like "I can't believe that they feel that way" or "wow...I never knew that", So while you're in the "getting to know you" phase, here are 25 questions that I feel is not often asked before hand, sometimes assumed, and are just very good to have especially in terms of sparking conversation, dialouge and honesty between you and your other.


**NOTE** I AM NO RELATIONSHIP EXPERT...JUST ME***


25.Your partner is making a lot more money than you, how do you feel?
24.How did you choose the career you are in ?
23.If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
22.If you had one day to live, what would you do?
21.What was your favorite age to be and why?

20.Whats living happily ever after to you?
19.Tell me how you describe me to other people?
18.Has there been an untimely death in your life that has had a big impact on you? Did you deal with it?
17.What was the biggest mistake you think you ever made and how did it change your life?
16.What is the one thing that would be a relationship breaker for you?

15.What is the one thing that you'd like to change about yourself?
14.Describe your perfect wedding
13.What is the thing that you fear most?
12.What do you think happens to you when you die?
11.What would you want people to say about you after you had passed away?

10.Do you feel that one partner in a couple should be able to vacation alone?
09. What are you beliefs about abortion?
08. What do you think should determine when a couple has a child?
07.Were you ever sexually, emotionally, or verbally abused?
06.How do you feel about having children?
05.What are your feelings on premarital sex?
04.Do you believe that couples should keep separate bank accounts ?

03. Do you believe in God and how important is spirituality to you?
02. How would you describe your relationship with God and your prayer life?
01. Do you believe Jesus is the son of God?

You think you know...well...you probably do.

I listen to R&B songs from the 60s, 70s, and 80s. I have a sponsor daughter from India named Rehka. I am a student at Roosevelt who, when the teacher asked our class what are our goals I stated "I'm going to change the world"...the teacher almost laughed, and she also almost had a shoe thrown at her. 90s music was great all around...Rap, Alternative, R&B...hell even Pop. I eat Golden Grahams and write poetry. My room is a mix of soul, Africa and black history and its junky as hell right now. People think because I like women with natural hair that i don't like women with weave...wrong....I don't like women with bad weaves. I find it hard to not buy clothes for every new occasion. If I had to pick five artist to listen to for the rest of my life it would be Prince, Kanye, Erykah, Explosions in the Sky, Lupe Fiasco.

I like woman who like to dress, who are down to earth and who I can laugh with and make laugh until they can't breathe. If I had the money I would build a number of youth resource and art centers to teach and expose inner city youth to literature, artistic expressions (song, poetry, instruments, dance), and culture. I want them to reach their full potential not just aspire to play basketball, rap, or do hair. I love Jesus...His dad is cool too. I have 4 sisters and one brother...my brother acts like a girl sometimes so I really have 5 sisters. I still support Barack Obama...even when he is trifflin. Malcolm X, the movie Hotel Rwanda, and staying in South Africa for two weeks changed my views about the world and myself all within the same time. I am ingrained in church but I don't consider my self a church person...church ppl are very very very weird, noisy, and they wear way too much perfume/cologne. The Book of Eli was underrated. American Gangster was overrated. I want a good female friend----turn best friend---turn crush---turn relationship---turn true love...I seen that on Boy Meets World. I disown the other Friday movies...the only good one was the first. Poetic Justice and Crooklyn and The Wood and Big Daddy and House Party and Aaladin, and the Goofy Movie, and the Wedding Singer and BeBe's Kids are movies I can watch over and over. Hide your grandmother's daughter. I want to meet my fBook friends who I never met in person...is that weird? I am writing a book of poems. Softsoap is the best. Mariah Carey settled.

I have a job and I get paid an hourly stipend. No vacation hours, benefits, sick days. When I get sick I have to go to Cook County and sit next to ppl who don't have jobs.

If I had to pick one fBook friend to hang with who I never met in person, haven't seen in years, or see on the regular it would probably be you. I like to look in the mirror like four or five times before I leave the house. I find it hard to have many friends my age..they're have immature mindsets. I wish there was a big ass dislike button for the ppl who don't tell you that you when you have a booger in your nose...then you see it when you get home and get pissed. I never forgave Chris Brown or the ppl that defended him. I think giving someone a #Fail or a #Clown is the funniest.

I never seen Harlem Nights or the Color Purple so my black card is revoked....but I been to Africa, so give me that shit right back!

I love black women. God doesn't get mad when I use profanity as long as I'm not cursing someone out....He told me that. Be Free and speak your mind that's why God gave it to you. I'm probably a feminist and don't even know it. I think gay ppl are some of the realist ppl. I like all kinds of food, especially women. Acts 26; 17b-18, I listened to a Christmas song in June and couldn't stop laughing. All of Kanye's album went platinum. I don't care about politics...hell I'll vote for Sasha and Malia, Jesus Peace was cold but YAM is anemic, I like to go on dates and surprise a girl by doing something so unique and special that she can't stop smiling in the inside, why did Mr.Snuffleupagus off Sesame Street look like he smelt like boo boo?, Eminem is the best rapper alive...listen to the word play lyrically, I procrastinate, I can't locate my Honesty Box...someone stole it, TLC is my favorite female group ever, I miss playing Super Nintendo, I like game nights and parties with friends, I hate clubs that have dress codes...just say no ignorant niggas aloud, Mary J. Blidge makes music is now for single women in their late 40s, my mom's justification for never paying me my money back is that she gave birth to me, Paul Mooney and Richard Pryor = constant laughs, ok ok...here are videos that I created - www.youtube.com/mjul, I want an iPad just to walk around school like (in my white Harvard grad voice) "oh, laptops...people still use those?", I only wear one pair of gym shoes...Supra, I like ppl who like my status updates...I feel important. I boycott Nike due to their sweatshops in India...don't do it!, Drake's voice gets annoying after a while, I want to be an independent film director and make documentaries, four kids would be nice but I will settle for two and a half, Everett is funny, Insecurities will hold you back in life, If you live in the suburbs and you're black, and you feel like you have to act out black stereotypes around your white friends...you are so lame, my birthday is the same day Martin Luther King gave his I have a dream speech and the same day Emmett Till was killed. Sometimes the Redline smells like a zoo...wait..all the time the Redline smells like a zoo. Be who you are and not what others want you to be, If Aaliyah was still alive, Beyonce would have never left Destiny's Child, I feel like I would make a great actor, Am I the only one who enjoy fbook stalking?, I'm always in the cute category...puppies are cute, going to college doesn't make you smarter, it makes you poorer. I'm still not who you think I am...but right now I am so late for work.